You probably have seen it once or twice in a porn movie and you wanted to try it out for yourself. But first it is important that you and your partner are willing to try out something different before you start on learning this technique. This kind of skill can be develop in time so you don’t have to worry if haven’t been successful the first time you tried it.
If you both agreed on trying it out you just need to prepare a room with all the right setting so that you can achieve the ultimate spa like experience with a treat. So burn a few scented candles, dim the lights and have some relaxing music playing in the background. Choose the right oil that you need for the massage. Then start your session.
If you are planning on massage your partner first you can start out and do regular massage. Try to keep her relaxed as possible and make sure that she enjoys what you do. You probably know how to do a basic massage, just try to focus on the area where she badly needs you touch then try to start on more sensitive parts. Remember that you need to keep your intensity and tempo the same. You are just massaging her. Just let her relax and enjoy everything new that she feels. Then will just depend on her if she will let you continue on with touching her or start sharing the bed.
If you can your partner to learn how to provide you with a proper massage with happy ending then you need to ask her if she’s willing first. If you get an approval you can guide her on what she should do. But she can also start out as a regular massage on your back and when you are laying still. Then she can start touching you on an erotic manner after you get ready. She needs to make sure that she maintains the same tempo as she has when she is massaging your back. Then just let her surprise you with what she have in store. Just relax and just enjoy every moment of this.
It is a good thing if you both are willing to try out something new to your sex life. This erotic massage can bring a different form of bonding between couple and they will also learn new things with their partner. This is for the senses and the two of you will surely enjoy the moment if you relax and let go of all the things that worries you. Just enjoy the moment and eventually you will both learn how to do it properly.
You can do some variation after you have done this a few more times. As you get to know your partner’s body you will discover all the magical places that she wants you to touch her. You need to take note of that and same goes with her in discovering your secret places as well.